Category Archives: Passive-Aggressive Behavior

Brandy’s Brother Ray J Needs To Sit Down


So, Ray J released a song called “I Hit It First,” a desperate cry for attention and an attempt to stir a big pot of poo. The song features lines like “She might move on to rappers and ballplayers/ But we all know I hit it first.” Well, we all know who he’s talking about, but Ray J honey, it’s time to move on.

After he released the song, which features a pixelated photo of Kim Kardashian from a couple of years ago, he tweeted “It’s not serious!” and it isn’t, but child move on! Since his sister Brandy made her mark in the industry as a teenager with a number of hit songs and a very popular television show, Ray J has always been known as well, Brandy’s little brother. He had a couple of successful singles on his own, but no one was really checking for him until a tape of a sexual nature was released featuring him and his then girlfriend Kim K. engaging in some boring antics. He got two reality shows on VH1 from this sudden burst of fame, but does anyone still care about him in that way?

Ray J. and Kim K. back in the  sex tape day.


Whether you think the song is funny or not, you have to admit it’s pretty childish. You can listen to it here via MTV and decide for yourself if you think Ray J is telling the truth about the song not being about anyone in particular. “They just gotta keep it on the surface. I’m not trying to create no war, it’s all love; we’re doing music.”

Yeah, yeah, ok dude. I think what bothers me the most is that I’m defending Kim yet again! What is this world coming to?!

‘The Voice’ Recap, The Top 6 Perform – Christina Sneers and Coughs


For Monday night’s ‘The Voice,’ the contestants would be sang two songs, one chosen by their coaches and the another they picked for themselves. There were great performances all around tonight and at this point it’s anyone’s game. BlakeCee Lo and Adam of course all still have team members in the competition, which meant there could be a chance to see Christina get a little salty that she was the lone coach without someone to actually coach!

Nicholas David sang “September” by Earth Wind & Fire.  I like when he does more upbeat stuff and this one wasn’t too fast for him. I really liked his whole stage set-up, it was very Soul Train. Blake told him that he still feels dumb for not turning for him, and Adam wanted him to sing more of the chorus , which he kind of left up to the background singers. It was still a great performance and a fun way to kick off the show.

Nicholas also got to close out the show with “Somewhere Over The Rainbow.” During rehearsals I didn’t really like the way he was going with it and the dude from Train (Cee Lo was out sick) asked him to put more of the original melody into it. This was a very emotional performance and I especially loved the ending. While Nick and the other contestants did their songs with some great staging, this was just him up there behind the piano and I loved it.

Cassadee Pope sang “Stand” by Rascal Flatts. Blake gave her this after she sang with the band, and this reminded me of when he started giving Jermaine Paul more Country songs to sing last season. Which means he thinks she’s his best bet for winning this thing. Cassadee rocked this performance and the notes toward the end were incredibly good. Christina said that she “won her over,” finally I guess. Adam wants to see something different from her, but her coach just wants her to keep doing her thing. That is obviously working for her.

Cassadee called “I’m With You” by Avril Lavigne her dream song. Cassadee knows how to pick songs that perfectly fit her style and voice, and frankly she’s a better singer than Lavigne. So it was another stellar performance from her and I think this worked even better than her first one.

Amanda Brown chose “You Make Me Feel Like A Natural Woman.” I was more than excited to hear her sing this and she did not disappoint. I wish it had gotten to the bigger parts of the song a little faster, and I loved the chorus of women singing along with her. Blake said that she was a “world class singer,” and Cee Lo made an odd comment about how he “loves and appreciates all women.” We’re sure you do, Cee! Christina was skipped over, thankfully, but she still got a couple of coughs in there while Adam was speaking.  Mmmhmm.

The song that Adam picked for Amanda was “Here I Go Again.” She would have no problem with this one and I always love it when she shows off her rock side. That red, leather suit was pretty hot too.

Terry McDermott sang “I Want To Know What Love Is” which Blake had him strip down and sing with just the piano. I think it was better for him to do something like this because as he said, “there is nowhere to hide” when you sing a song this way. I agree that Terry always does sound effortless and this may have elevated him in the competition a bit.

His second song was “Stay With Me” by Rod Stewart which he said he felt at home singing. Well he certainly has a Rod Stewart quality to his voice. This was a much more rockin’ performance and he was so in his element.

Trevin Hunte was curiously given “Walking On Sunshine” and I just thought nooooooo! I knew he would make it sound good but I really just hated this song choice. His dancing with the band was cute and you could tell he was having fun. I think I would have liked it more if they had made it a bit more…jazzy. The coaches praised him though, I just wish there had been a little more to it but it wasn’t as bad as when he did “Scream.” 

The song he chose for himself was much better, “And I Am Telling You I’m Not Going.” I hate to say it, but there was something missing here for me. I thought he kind of rushed to get to those last notes which are the biggest in the song. Overall it was great, and the coaches loved it. Blake called it a “two minute moment” while his coach had a moment of silence to mourn the loss of the other contestants. Bold, but I loved it!

Melanie Martinez sang Gnarls Barkley‘s “Crazy,” sporting some new blue hair.  It really works for her and I feel like the only person she really had to impress here was Cee Lo who loved it. I didn’t really hear any pitchiness from her, but she usually knows how to safely stay in her range.

Adam gave her “The Show” by Lenka, a great choice for her voice. He wanted to get her out of the “somber” mood she always seems to be in during her performances. So there was no fog or mannequin’s for this one, just her in a cartoon park. It was pretty cute without going into corny territory but it got a little boring towards the end. While Adam and Xtina traded blows, Cee Lo said that he actually liked the colorful set up. Well, it is Cee Lo.

Which contestant did you think did the best, and which two do you think are going home? You can vote for your favorite on Facebook or download their singles on iTunes!

Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel Are Indeed Getting Married This Weekend at The Borgo Egnazia Resort In Italy **UPDATE**

JT and JB – Any second now…


Hey now!  Looks like my little pea-brain did indeed figure out where Justin and Jessica are getting married this weekend:  The Borgo Egnazia.  Lord knows what I could have done with my life if I had put one-half the effort into something useful, right?  Ahhh, well.  I can’t do math, I don’t like to exercise so I keep my weight down with a good old-fashioned illness every 18 months or so.  That really does keep me occupied.  Where was I and why did I go off on that tangent? (Yeah. I wonder.)

Pre-wedding party



Se ne parla da giorni ma ora la notizia è pressoché certa. Justin Timberlake e Jessica Biel sono pronti a sposarsi in Puglia e vi diro di più: i festeggiamenti sono già iniziati.

Ieri sera la coppia ha dato una festa pre-matrimoniale a Cala Masciola, il lido di Borgo Egnazia, in provincia di Brindisi. Circa cinquanta invitati hanno brindato sulla spiaggia pugliese facendo i migliori auguri ai due futuri sposi.

The point here is, I figured out the Top Secret Location of Justin Timberlake’s wedding to that one chick.

Mr. and Mrs. Timberlake?


According to, quite a few celebs/friends of the couple have gathered for a pre-wedding party in the Pulgia Region of Italy in honor of Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel.  Spotted at the party were Andy Samberg, Beverly Mitchell, Chris Kirkpatrick and Timbaland, among others.

Now.  I did some of my own investigating.  After studying a photo from the party, I found some luxury hotels in the Puglia Region and checked on availability for this weekend.  The Hotel Masseria Torre Maizza is sold out, as is The Borgo Egnazia.  If I had to wager (which, thankfully, I don’t), I’d say the wedding will take place at The Borgo Egnazia (below).

Photos of Borgo Egnazia, Fasano
The Borgo Egnazia

This resort would certainly be my choice in Puglia.  And for Justin, it has one of the world’s finest seaside golf courses.

The Borgo Egnazia

I could be wrong, but this place is pretty exquisite.  (You can see for yourself by clicking on the link.)

I’ll predict also, that Tom Ford will dress the groom.  I’d like to think that Jessica will go with a Dior gown, but she may have simply gone to David’s Bridal,  to hurry things along, so JT doesn’t back out.


We’ll see if Dipped in Cream gets at least some of the details correctly from our place on the Sofa in Seattle.

**Yes. We were right.**